I once had a dream about a colleague of mine with whom I had always maintained a cordial but distant relationship. In the dream, we found ourselves in a difficult situation where we had to work collaboratively to solve a complex problem. The experience, though imaginary, revealed qualities about this person that I had not previously noticed due to our limited interactions in reality.
In the dream, my colleague was incredibly resourceful and displayed a level of empathy and teamwork that was truly inspiring. We communicated effortlessly, and his calm demeanor in the face of adversity became apparent. Upon waking up, I found myself reflecting on how my mind had created this scenario. It compelled me to reconsider the assumptions I had held about him, based largely on brief, formal exchanges at work.
After this experience, I approached my interactions with him differently. I began to engage more deeply in conversations, seeking to understand him better outside of our professional responsibilities. Over time, I discovered many of the dreamt qualities held true in reality. This shift not only enriched our working relationship but also allowed me to see the importance of looking beyond the surface to truly understand and appreciate those around us.